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Thursday, February 3, 2011

Recpect, Courtesy, Tolrence and Good manners


When I was started to think better for myself and leave others on their behalf. It will be the negative impression for my grooming personality. In the meantime I may not feel that with a specific time it will be dicsoureged ,by me if I ever realize it as the big mistake. Selfishness can make your character, behavior and attitude and your inner feeling shameful after the on going time. As time and tide wait for none. No doubt selfishness and leaving behind others to your self may benefit you at that time but it must be worm for your grooming personality. Self respect can be got through the appreciation of others and others appreciation can be taken with courtesy. As in the process of respect it can be employed in give and take processes.
Humans in this world are the superior most living animals only for the cause of positive behavior and character. As our life’s main purpose is to polish charter and make it better. For instance you can consider human’s character as the unpolished diamond which is worthless when it is not shining and its got lot of worth when it in its true shape, just like that human behavior—characters takes credit for grooming of personality and needed to be quite polished,. For making our personality better their some tools which includes Courtesy free of selfishness and abundant of tolerance, sincerity, kindliness.
Peoples always seek to get thyself for betterment and the society in which they live is the mirror of them which tells that which is ongoing, what is they and what they should be. That’s why pay respect and give respect where the behavior matters a lot. Courtesy play an important role in obtaining charter of peoples better they feel satisfied after getting respect through society. With one element which can control the processes of society is the courtesy.
While on the other hand not considering others and bad manners make our image filthy for the peoples. Our manners and the way we behave in society can count a lot. Our ways of talking, body languange, gestures or May verbal communication considers at all colleagues. The way we behave is actually the hint for t=others that what kind of class he/ she belongs to. As society and we are the attire of each other and our character explains our family background as family is the major school of socialization of any individual.
So, the value of Courtesy is not the denial of behavior. Courteous person always get a lot form his/her peers, collegues and friends. The lack of courtesy can make our life gloomy and dark because we have no real connection with the commons of society. Our major achievements are based on our manners, our deeds. As, these minor looking acts may vary in the life. A courteous person enjoys the rights of his living while the person who does not pay respect and behave badly is always considers as the spoil egg. Acts in daily life are the true image of insight of human. Actions in life may vary if they are bad so man is considered as bad if the way of behaving is good then it is courted as the worthy person. What must be taken thoughtful is that when some one acts fine you must portrait him in good manner that’s show the true image of courtesy. Respect and courtesy are the good deeds which is needed to be found in every human, without paying respect others can make bad act of deed. Humans are well thought for good deeds, as if he is courteous. While leaving behind selfishness and promoting tolerance can present you in the measure of higher morality. Kindness is the true degree for make a way in humanity.




Behaving in good manners are always take credit so simply advice is that behave in courteous state for which peoples on which usually every one is dependent on each other should not forget the value of courtesy. Respect, honor, courtesy dignity is the major factor which are directly proportion with the livelihood of any individual. Respect leads a road way to success but it must not contain any self benefit otherwise it as taken as flattery which is the kind of deception so do pay more respect and get a lot and be courteous with good deeds.






Posted by Usman Ahmad


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